I feel like a whiner! I read your replies and other discussions on here and I am literally embarrassed to complain! Most of you have fought this for a long time and deal with it somehow. You all are a great inspiration and troopers for sure. Thank you for all your comments, advice and cheerful outlooks! I really do appreciate all of you!
We all have our days! I always try to stay positive. On the days I can't, I don't post lol. Good news, you are just like the rest of us.
Maybe you misread some of the posts, giggle. We have all shared a b and moan about everything and there ahve ben some really really strong posts deleted by the powers that be. We share the good stuff and the bad stuff. The good stuff we share makes up for the bad stuff, sometimes!
It's ok to whine...a good pity party (in moderation) is cleansing i found.
I've only been diagnosed a little over a year...not quite there with my grieving and acceptance, total acceptance, yet. I've whined a ton ... how i learn that it will never be "perfect" again. How i learn to change myself cause i ain't changing anyone or anything else...powerless there.
For me gratitude for the things i still have and can still do is key. I'm not perfect...don't need to be...i'm human! Baby steps toward forward motion is key. I'm crazy to think there will be no moments where gracefulness don't elude me.
Be kind to yourself....everyday is but a second chance at things, now that's something to be grateful for even on those days i wish i never woke up!!
You don't need to apologize. Please we like to hear complaints only because we can relate and can give are support. That's one of the reasons I love this place because I can sometimes let off steam with a lot of people that understand how frustrating and devastating MS symptoms can be. I also want you to know that your a trooper too. Yes sometimes you may not feel like it but we have to be. I also appreciate all of you guys too. I feel like this is such a wonderful community. Thanks for apologizing. If you need to whine please let it out lol.
Ah, you don't need to apologize to us. Shoot, we all have our days when sometimes we are whiners, crybabies, ranters and ravers, but then again sometimes we have some really good days. It happens to all of us.