I have a friend who just turned 90, and it is driving him crazy that his son is telling him what he can do and not do.Your mother is olld enough to know how to take care of herself and what works for her, so please allow her to make her own mistakes. Losing autononmy is the worst hell for any adult. To put it rudely, mind your own business. Your mother made it this far, she must be doing something right.We msers have instances where things do not go into our memory, it is like words bypass the memory cells. We say yes to doing something but never know we have made plans. It is more pronounced when we are more fatigues. We try to do what we use to do, so we over work all the nerves and our mind does not forget things, it is that the mind never knew, it is just the mouth speaking.If i had children, I would want them to live their own lives, to enjoy their lives, and to live their lives to the fullest. They are separate, no longer attached, be strong, be independent, pay attention to your family, enjoy them, love them, and let me live my life.We each have our own self, to be who we want to be, no matter what. Just because we have ms, gives you no right to interfere with how i live my life. Share with me your concerns, because you would be remiss if you did not, and then you have met your oblgation. My life is up to me.[because i have ms, it makes me sorta angry about being careful about my life, what could be worse? So when i was 61 i got on a horse, even though everyone was scared (not me), there was a grand time for me, no doctors, no babysitters, nobody trelling me anything, me and the horse, i even did some low level jumping, because i wanted the thrill, and of course there were times when i fell off the horse and that was grand too, because i wanted that experience. Things that make me feel good about myself seem to be all i need to have a good life, living with ms. It is unlike anything i have ever known in my life, and as it gets worse, i want my independence more. Be kind to yourself and recognize that your mom is an adult, responsible for herself, and you are not responsible for her, she IS old enough to make her own mistakes.