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kwiederhold

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Monica_A
Monica_A replied to discussion RE:Medical Insurance and Care
20 days ago
Hi Caligirl 82, Have you called an MS Navigator?  One of our Navigators could be very helpful in navigating the complex world of assistance.  It would be good to make sure all options have been exhausted.  You can reach them M-F 9-7 ET at 1-800-344-4867, press option 1.  I hope that helps!Monica
caligirl82
caligirl82 created discussion Medical Insurance and Care
20 days ago
Has anyone had any issues with receiving care for your parent or loved one? My mother was told that she makes too much money to receive government assistance, but not enough for 24/7 care from a caregiver. How is that? Are there any other resources out there? Very frustrating!
caligirl82
caligirl82 replied to discussion RE:Daughters Frustration...
20 days ago
I completely understand where you are coming from. I'm in the same boat as you are in. I sometimes wish my mother would acknowledge that we are just trying to help. WIth MS, if you do not take care of yourself, you only get worse. She doesnt understand that or is too stubborn to do anything about it. There have been times where I felt like giving up, because I can only give advise to her, its up to her to run with it. Now my mom is in a state where she cannot take care of herself and caretakers are involved. It is getting to the point where she might have to go live in a board and care facility. My brother and I cannot care for her daily needs like an around the clock care provider can. It is frustrating to say the least.
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caligirl82

Melbourne, FL
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dragonflymum

Clermont, FL
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Columbia, MD
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Seymour, TN
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maria1
maria1 replied to discussion RE:Daughters Frustration...
2 months ago
I have a friend who just turned 90, and it is driving him crazy that his son is telling him what he can do and not do.​Your mother is olld enough to know how to take care of herself and what works for her, so please allow her to make her own mistakes. Losing autononmy is the worst hell for any adult. To put it rudely, mind your own business. Your mother made it this far, she must be doing something right.​We msers have instances where things do not go into our memory, it is like words bypass the memory cells. We say yes to doing something but never know we have made plans. It is more pronounced when we are more fatigues. We try to do what we use to do, so we over work all the nerves and our mind does not forget things, it is that the mind never knew, it is just the mouth speaking.​If i had children, I would want them to live their own lives, to enjoy their lives, and to live their lives to the fullest. They are separate, no longer attached, be strong, be independent, pay attention to your family, enjoy them, love them, and let me live my life.​We each have our own self, to be who we want to be, no matter what. Just because we have ms, gives you no right to interfere with how i live my life. Share with me your concerns, because you would be remiss if you did not, and then you have met your oblgation. My life is up to me.​[because i have ms, it makes me sorta angry about being careful about my life, what could be worse? So when i was 61 i got on a horse, even though everyone was scared (not me), there was a grand time for me, no doctors, no babysitters, nobody trelling me anything, me and the horse, i even did some low level jumping, because i wanted the thrill, and of course there were times when i fell off the horse and that was grand too, because i wanted that experience. Things that make me feel good about myself seem to be all i need to have a good life, living with ms. It is unlike anything i have ever known in my life, and as it gets worse, i want my independence more. Be kind to yourself and recognize that your mom is an adult, responsible for herself, and you are not responsible for her, she IS old enough to make her own mistakes.
jacikhouser
jacikhouser created discussion Daughters Frustration...
2 months ago
My mother has known about her MS for almost 9 years now, she has good days and bad but mostly bad lately. I feel guilty beacuse lately I've been so frustrated with her, lying about MRI results, ignoring symptoms, not taking care of herself like we all think she should. I try my best to help her where I can but I have a two year old daughter and a husband at home who require my love and attention as well. It's straining my marriage and my relationship with her, especially with a new symptom shes developed. She has moments when she blurts out the most rude and hurtful things to me and others around her and then has no recollection of what she has said later. I know she cannot help it but its extremely frustrating along with the other things going on. The guilt is killing me and I just wish someone understood. 
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West Bloomfield, MI
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Kim created discussion FREE AARP Online Family Caregiving Fair, Thursday, November 17th
5 months ago
You’re invited to join The National MS Society at  AARP’s Online Family Caregiving Fair, Thursday, November 17th. It’s a free, live online event you can participate in from your own home!  Connect with fellow family caregivers and get helpful tips, resources and more.By registering today, you’ll be able to connect and get family caregiving resources from The National MS Society, AARP, and nearly 20 non-profit and government organizations including the Administration on Aging, the Alzheimer’s Association, the American Cancer Society, SAGE, the U.S. Veteran’s Administration and Zeta Phi Beta.  Plus, you’ll even have the chance to ask actress and advocate Holly Robinson Peete a question during a live webinar “A Cast of Caregivers” hosted by author and national caregiving expert Sherri Snelling! Register nowCan’t make it on November 17th? You can still register and get access to unique content after the Online Family Caregiving Fair ends! 
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tiffanytphilips

Waldorf, MD
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