On the Chopping Block

Imagine whipping up a gourmet, cheeto-crusted turkey entrée dish in 30 minutes… in front of superstar chefs Scott Conant, Alex Guarnaschelli and Marc Murphy.
 
While most of us will only experience this scenario in our dreams, Chef Chris Holland found himself in this position once again when he returned to the Food Network’s Chopped kitchen and won for the third time.
 
This time, he competed for the chance to win the $10,000 grand prize for the National MS Society on last night’s episode of Chopped. Why?
 
Because Chris lives with MS.
 
We caught up with Chris to talk about his journey with MS, career and why he went back for a third time on the famed TV show.

When were you were diagnosed with MS and what was that like?
In 2004, at 24 years of age, I woke up one morning, and I was numb from the waist down and found it difficult to stand up. Subsequent testing led to the discovery that the vision in my left eye was impaired. Seven days later. I was diagnosed with MS.
 

Chris with his wife Marge and son Max

What was your reaction?
I asked my doctor, "Is that the disease that makes you paralyzed?" That was the extent of my knowledge about the disease.

It’s strange being given life altering news. You would think that the normal reaction would be to grieve with loved ones. For me, it was not that way. I chose isolation and denial. Logically, I knew that I was sick, but I didn’t want to let myself acknowledge it. I could and did everything in my power to forget that I had this disease. I didn’t want to learn about it, I didn’t want to go on medicine or go to counseling; I just wanted to forget.

It was this need to forget that would begin the darkest chapter of my life. I felt that my future had been taken away from me. Hopes and dreams had become pointless and "caring" about my life was pointless, too. At 24 years of age, I felt as if I had nothing to live for, and that shaped how I would come to act in the coming years

I eventually found escape through the use of drugs, and for 5 years, I lived to forget. Living that way brought me pain that I could never imagine. I lost almost everything in the world that I cherished... friends, family, my career (I was in the legal profession at the time). Funny thing is, I lost everything in my life except the one thing that I really wanted to lose: the MS.

How has MS affected your life? Your career?
In 2009, I got sober and began to put my life back together piece by piece. In getting sober, I learned the importance of acceptance. I stopped feeling sorry for myself and took stock of my present life.

Ironically, it was the MS that inspired me to pursue my dream of becoming a chef. I remember coming home from my office job and telling my wife that I wanted to try and be a chef. I wanted to have a career that I loved. I wanted to be happy. With her blessing and full support, I jumped into an entirely new career at age 32. 
 

Chris cooking with his dad Tom early in Chris' career

Honestly, I don't think that I would have had the perspective on life and happiness had it not been for the diagnosis and subsequent tribulations that I faced. At the end of the day, every person on this earth is living a life with an expiration date. In that way, they are no different than people with MS. The difference is that for those of us with MS, we get reminded of it every day. If looked at with the right perspective, that can be a blessing.

As far as my career currently, MS does add a bit more challenge to an already physically demanding job. The fatigue is very real, and a 12-hour day becomes that much harder when you add MS related-fatigue to it. I am fortunate, though, to work for one of the kindest and most compassionate men that I have ever known. Being open in this business about a condition that could, at any given time, put me out of commission for an extended period of time, is something that always scared me. I was able to do that because I knew that my boss and friend, Joe Printz, absolutely had my back.

Why did you select the National MS Society as your charity to compete for on Chopped?
I am a private person, but the “Chopped” producers are great at their jobs. Eventually they got me to open up about living with MS. Being on “Chopped” was a dream come true, and cooking for Alton Brown made it that much more surreal. 

What I didn’t expect, and what affected me in ways that I could never imagine, was the response that I received after the episode aired. I was able to connect with so many others who had been diagnosed, many young people who were in the same place that I was at 24 – feeling hopeless and defeated. It warmed my heart to hear that my story brought some hope to people who had their lives turned upside down. When “Chopped” asked me to come back and compete again, I wanted to represent all of us who live every day with the uncertainty that this disease brings; to show them that there is living left to do after the diagnosis, and not to give up on their dreams.
 

Chris' Walk MS team.

What would you like people to know about living with MS?
If you have a friend or loved one who lives with this disease, please understand that everything we do takes more effort than it would for a normal person. We are tired a lot and it’s not because we go to bed too late or had too much to drink. We live with aches and pains all the time, and no we aren’t being overly dramatic for attention, in fact we are most likely understating our discomfort. Most importantly, people with MS are not weak; we are some of the strongest people you will ever meet. Just coming across as "normal" takes an extraordinary strength of will.

We don't want sympathy from anyone, just a bit of understanding and patience. Thanks to organizations like the Society, this is becoming less and less of an issue though.
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  • Anna   Nov 21, 2019 11:35 AM
    I loved watching him win all three times. I'm happy he was willing to share his story. I draw strength from others battling this horrid illness. We are more than ms. We have ms not the other way around.
  • Kelly Lahiff-Hammond   Nov 21, 2019 11:56 AM
    I commend you, & thank you so much for donating to MS. I was dx in 2012 @ 44. They told me I had r/r thought that for quite a few years, but I always had the same flares paralyzed from waste down. Then about 4 yrs ago found out I have progressive/relapsing that’s why my flares were the same. Have a new MS neurologist who put me on rituxan to slow my progression down. Thank god
  • Lewie Johnson   Nov 21, 2019 12:33 PM
    I myself have MS and have had it since January of 2004. My late wife who passed away Memorial Day 2018 used to watch all of the shows on the Food Network channel. “Chopped” was one of her favorite shows. When she passed away due to end-stage renal failure, I couldn’t bring myself to watch TV anymore when she passed away. Although she lost her sight due to diabetes in 2001, she loved listening to football on TV whether it was college, or the NFL. Food Network was her second choice, followed by judge shows (Judge Judy, Hot Bench, Couple’s Court, etc.). The only judge show she didn’t care for was “Paternity Court”. Had she been alive and knew about someone competing on “Chopped” who has MS she would’ve told me about it, and I would’ve been following along with her.
    Although I am sorry that I did not know about or see Chris’ journey to victory on “Chopped”, I had an instant flash in my mind of how happy my wife would’ve been seeing him win. She would’ve been rooting for him all the way because like me, he has MS. If it wasn’t for the National MS Society putting a spotlight on Chris’ story and getting the email of it, I never would’ve known of it. So to the National NS Society and Chef Chris Holland, THANK YOU!! And congratulations Chef Chris!!!!
  • Kimberly Bell   Nov 21, 2019 12:52 PM
    Thank you so much for sharing. I love that show and they have the Chef’s to create a miracle meal out of rediculous items. I am happy that you won and proved that you are a cooking champ, I thank you for choosing to support the National MS Society to help us to come closer to finding a cure for MS. Your story was really inspiring and I will be sharing it with my family. Thank you and you will be in my prayers.
  • Audrey Bell   Nov 21, 2019 1:48 PM
    It's fabulous to hear about someone with the exact symptoms as me, diagnised just a few years younger, and having some of the same ways of dealing with this illness put things in a positive perspective. I hope many more people hear these words.

    All of us with MS are dealing with different symptoms in different ways, and this example of overcoming adversity is one of the best I've ever seen.

    Thank you for sharing. Thank you for giving. Thank you for caring.
  • Lori Andrews   Nov 21, 2019 4:02 PM
    What an inspiration you truly are my friend! Congratulations on your Chopped win and thank you for winning it for MS but also a huge win for you! I don’t know you personally but I am so proud of you. I was diagnosed in 2004 at age 34, widow with a small daughter. In the medical field one day and a bag of meds the next. You give me hope to hold out although I am no longer able to work, God has blessed me beyond measure.
    Love and prayers
    To you and your precious family &
    ALL WHO SUFFER MS DAILY
    ♥️♥️♥️
  • Paul Hatch   Nov 21, 2019 6:35 PM
    To Chris,
    CONGRATULATIONS on the win!!
    It’s obvious you definitely speak from experience dealing with what I call “the unwanted companion” MS. My story is different from yours but I guess in actuality all our MS stories differ in ways that make them our own.
    You brought tears to my eyes with your spot on words of what you would like people to know about living with MS, your choice of words, how you put them together and your reasoning behind it makes it all come together so well!! Chris you made my day a little better today because of your words and I’m grateful to you for that.
    Regards,
  • Odalys Santiago   Nov 22, 2019 9:46 AM
    Thank you so much for sharing your inspiring story.
  • Patti   Nov 22, 2019 3:25 PM
    Thank you so much for sharing your story. My husband and I have a small catering company so I understand the fatigue first hand. I've learned to manage my fatigue by planning my work schedule around it and thankfully my husband has my back.
  • Linda   Nov 23, 2019 6:30 AM
    Thank you, Chris, for shining a light on MS and the people it affects each day. I have lived with it for 38 years, and I will keep going! Bless you!
  • Karen   Nov 25, 2019 9:24 PM
    Thank you for your kind words. I too have MS and have experienced many of the things you described. Knowing I am not alone is a wonderful feeling and you are so very brave to speak openly. God Bless You and I wish you the best of luck in the future.