Hey Jessie, I definitely don’t have it figured out yet but my husband was diagnosed 4 years ago and this is what I’ve learned so far ...* Find something other than MS to talk about together. They want to be seen as a person, not a person with MS* You are a partner, not a nurse. You need to take care of yourself, they will need you* Plan ahead. My husband lost mobility way quicker than the doctors had us ready for. Thankfully we moved to a house with one floor before necessary. But, we waited too long to convert the tub to a shower and he had a pretty bad fall. * The NMSS is super helpful. Call them if you need anything. They helped connect us to people who made his car adaptable to driving with his hands and physical therapists familiar with MS Good luck!